Community Agreement / Usage Policy
Community Agreement / Usage Policy
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Tomball.com is a local online, social gathering place for neighbors in the Tomball, Texas area.
This community welcomes and encourages:
The Tomball.com forum is a privately owned online social group and you must follow
the guidelines below as well as coexist in a friendly way with moderators and their requests in order
to participate here.
- Open and honest dialogue.
- A friendly, safe and welcoming atmosphere.
- People giving each other the benefit of the doubt, especially with controversial or emotional topics.
A Couple Guidelines:
Rules? What About Free Speech? This Is Censorship!
- Don't be a jerk. No insults or name calling directed at other members. Avoid personal attacks or character attacks on other members.
- If many people might interpret a message or picture as racist, bigoted, homophobic or sexist, don't post it.
This is a quick way to get banned.
- Any characterization of a group of people made up of predominantly one race or
sexuality, as having a list of stereotypical negative characteristics associated with
that group, or being worse than another group, is against forum rules and will be removed.
- Repeated posts pointing out alleged or stereotype negative traits of a particular protected group (racial group, sexual orientation, religious group) will be removed because it gives the appearance of being racist or bigoted.
- Insults or criticisms against people of a certain race, ethnicity, sex,
sexual orientation, country of origin, or religion is against the rules
and will be removed.
- Don't pretend to be someone else, or post under several usernames, with a couple exceptions:
"Throw Away" Accounts:
You can create a temporary "throw away" username to use in a single discussion thread
to discuss a private/personal issue, but that account should be restricted to that
single discussion only, and you should not post with both your accounts under the same discussion.
Do not use throw away accounts to post inflammatory messages or messages that otherwise break forum rules.
Classifieds Account: You can also create one separate account for use on the classifieds only.
- Privacy / Anonymity: Never post personal information (real name, address, work place, physical description, email address, family status, etc.)
that would betray the anonymity of another member without permission, either publicly or
in private messages. We can only enforce your anonymity/privacy if you are careful
about giving out your infochrmation publicly. If you think someone has violated your
privacy / anonymity, please contact an Admin ASAP. Don't repost other members' private messages on
the public forums. Forward PMs to an Admin if they are breaking rules.
- "Doxxing" of private individuals (people who are not public figures) is strictly prohibited.
This includes researching and publicly broadcasting identifying personally identifying information
about an individual to the forums
such as: their real name, family member names, information about children, employer name, home or work address, car type or color,
or any other personally identifying information (whether available publicly or not)
especially if there is an intent to criticize, harm, harass, embarrass, shame, or coerce.
Please note: Tomball.com may release member information if deemed appropriate
to cooperate with reasonable law enforcement requests or comply with the law.
- Messages that are too crude may get deleted. Don't post sexually explicit or violent pictures or videos. Our detailed photo & video guidelines are available here.
- Jokes or memes that insult or make fun of someone in a sexual way, or make allegations of sexual impropriety, will be removed unless that person has been convicted in court. Allegations of sexual impropriety can still be discussed in a civil and serious manner.
- Any posts calling for or suggesting violence will be removed. This includes
generic calls for the country to go into "civil war."
This rule does not apply to calls for legal use of force by the US government.
Advocating for or celebrating the death of another human being is grounds for being
banned. Regardless of what you think about a person, this type of
discourse is unwelcome on these forums.
No business solicitations, advertisements, spam or business self promotion on the forums.
Honest reviews of local companies by independent third parties are welcome, although we will
sometimes remove criticisms of our official website sponsors.
New, unestablished accounts may have reviews removed if they appear suspicious or look
like an advertisement.
Buying, selling, trading and giving things away for free should be limited to the Classifieds section or Private Messages and not on the forums.
This is to prevent the forums from being overwhelmed with those kinds of posts.
- The "Ignore" feature is meant to reduce conflict. If you have someone on ignore or that person has you on ignore, refrain from talking to or about that person.
- Moderators typically delete the following types of threads: swan song posts, posts about missing members who were banned or quit the website, posts about ignoring or being ignored by someone, new threads dedicated to criticizing another member, posts advocating for dubious medical treatments, posts about being banned or quitting the site, posts about one race bad or being better/worse than average in some way, critiques of moderating (take it to PMs), posts mentioning other forums or community web sites or Facebook groups, any referral or affiliate links.
- Moderators typically remove posts criticizing our official website sponsors.
- "Bumping" threads without contributing to the conversation (in order to promote certain threads or keep them toward the top of the page) is considered spamming and will result in your account and the threads being locked.
- If someone is breaking the rules, flag it and let a moderator step in. Avoid taking things "into your own hands".
- No chronic unfriendly behavior allowed: members who habitually demean, criticize, or mock other members, or otherwise encourage a hostile environment on the forums will have their account closed.
If two members argue repeatedly with each other, an Admin may put them on "Forced Ignore".
Rules concerning racism, bigotry, sexism, anonymity, business solicitations also
apply to private messages. Violations of these specific rules could get your account
banned even if they are limited to occurring in private messages only.
If two members are fighting with each other repeatedly or engaging in escalating hostility toward each other,
the entire discussion may be removed by a moderator, including posts that may or may not be directly breaking rules.
Some extreme or objectionable conspiracy theory posts will be removed, at the discretion of the moderators.
Reposting viral posts from social media that are unatttributed and include multiple clearly incorrect
items stated as "facts" may be removed from the forums.
Those posts may be better posted on Facebook or Twitter or other social media platforms instead.
- Verifiable incorrect quotes or blatantly incorrect propaganda (i.e., graphs with clearly false and unsourced information) will be removed in the interest of reducing the spread of incorrect information on the forums. Repeated posting of this type of information may cause your Politics access to be removed.
- We have unique and specified rules about Political discussions on these forums. If you start a political discussion, mark it in the "Political" category. Anything remotely related to politics, the law, politicians, major legal issues or major social issues should be marked political. Please do not post about politics on discussions not marked political. Read the full political guidelines here »
- You must be 13 years or older to have an account or participate on the forums.
The health and strength of this community, and the safety of its members overrides all other rules.
Although the guidelines above cover most situations, it's difficult to write rules that cover all scenarios
that may arise. Moderators will sometimes take further actions that aren't directly
mentioned above when they are done in good faith in order to protect
the health and strength of this online community, and to protect members' safety and privacy.
Tomball.com is a privately owned web site, and the forums are
a private online social group. This means that, Yes, we can and do restrict certain
conversations on the forums.
Certain controversial discussions, while perfectly valid to have, should take place on other websites
better suited for those controversial topics.
Many of these rules are created with the goal of keeping Tomball.com a friendly
and inviting place for most residents of Tomball.
Just like you couldn't curse at church, or use racial slurs at Disney World without getting
kicked out; we have set certain reasonable limits on Tomball.com members in order
to participate here. The Internet is a big place, and there are many web sites where all types
of controversial and inflammatory discussions are allowed, but Tomball.com is not one of them.